Life has been changed alot ,from being so primitive ,simple and small to the world wide windows all over the globe . We became mingled and it is hard to go back to the one line of patterns that make the difference between one community and another, one generation and another one nation and another .We turned to be the product of many cultures and nations dealt with one another at certain time of life and here came the out come . We may differ in how we look, wear or talk and what never changed is our emotions and feelings towards each other culturally and religiously.
Interaction now is a global phenomenon . No clear boundaries or concepts that determine what exactly the way of life has to be .by other means , human manuals that is changing each moment of life .We declare something and in real everyday life is something totally different .I call it " Each Day Tailored Manual" The manual that its guidelines are written by the moment . Another explanation for it , act up on the situation , means nothing is being considered unbreakable standard .
Creating a system within a system. Creating an institution within an institution . call it leadership or common sense whatever it is , it takes us into many wild adventures within our everyday life ,that sometimes makes you willing not to put any pre- planning or being structured a certain way . No, it is the free hand written outlines. Act up on what is happening in the moment not prior logic. Logic doesn't work for such floating hours in the day .or call it acting according to the common sense.
Sometimes what do you think is a common sense brings lots of hard situations into your day . Allowing you to feel as if you are swimming in the ocean with no precautions or preparation .It is telling you deal with it , if you can with a big hidden smile telling you , hello there , are you awake ????? Taken by surprise or even being put under pressure is a common situation or being brought to it .
Either ways it depends on how much you can tke in and your brain can process .Many messages pass through your mind at that particular situation and may bring you back to past experiences that can trigger certain emotions with it . Processing these emotions can bring more hard situations into your day especially if others don't understand you so well or at the bottom line don't like you around or even that is the way it is ,you are not accepted so how you are going to deal with it .That what counts if you are going to accept these emotions and deal with the situation in an objective way . knowing your responsibly of it or you are going to deal with it and that depends on your reception to the emotions that follows . Are you going to make them affect you and block your understanding and having a quick response or are you going to immerse yourself in the same dark hole that you allow it in ?
The choice at first will look far away from reach and with no experience how to handle it . You will struggle till you reach your end that negative reaction not only affects you but it affects how you see others and the whole world around you as well . Forgetting no matter from where we are from , we are human and emotions control each aspect in our lives in almost everything we see in life . Being judgmental can ruin many beautiful things around . Being sarcastic doesn't make the true reflection on the situation and the right action has to be done .Being a judge for everyone around is not a fun thing .
To be yourself needs lots of courage that you are willing to choose either you accept whatever you can't change or choosing to handle it with all its sides negative and positive , bearing in mind that everything comes at a cost .
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