In The Valleys

When the land is plain when nature reflects the glory of God around. When everything is going on with no stop. When life sounds so mysterious and no answer about. We tend to spread the boundaries, to the point that you will find yourself one day that this is not right or sound right or something is off is happening that cross the boundaries that must exist from day one. Wait, are we supposed aware of the true meaning of things or we are supposed to be taught or learn them by doing, action, experiences, or relationships/


  Years ago if you mention the word relationships, the first thing comes to my mind is your inner circle, the ones that belong to you by blood. year after year, I come to know relationships are each communication happens with any group of people. Here comes the deep knowledge about how relationships are formed. Going through lots of situations I came to a point at this moment it may stay the same or change as in relationships, everything comes out. the best and most pleasant relationship is the customer services as there is a script you are trained to, specific responses and there is a boundary a customer can not cross. At the grocery store, or wherever you are shopping simple and clear communications, how are you today, did you find everything ok? have a great day here is your receipt. That is it, where can I find..? Do you have...? in the store? another thing still no one will cross your boundary as that is the protocol and everyone is aware of it, so all on the same page.

Here in different settings where your job is all about getting personal, the whole story shifts as interests, goals, vision will differ and the whole scenario will be exposure to invading the boundaries you set for yourself. As the criteria in this way, you will be judged personally, here comes the options of I like this person or I do not like this person and whether you like the person or not, you will do your best to spread your views and here comes the process of boxing people according to personal assumptions. So you start to wonder are we talking minds or persons? And here comes our challenges which in many times we can not control as you are not going to make someone like you and they made up their minds not to like you so it is a waste of time, energy and even life if you try to make them like you. That what may turn our life into a miserable lifestyle as whatever their assumptions, they are made and there is no harm to them thinking like that, the true harm is you. The true effect is on you as you allow all these negative vibes around you, deplete you down. In many times drama is the food of those who strive on making others miserable since they can see that it truly affect you, so it works. Be sure such harmful relationships won't disappear as they are on the constant look for prey to feed their hunger as they strive on making others hurt, sad, sick or even angry or mad. Do not wonder such energy does exist. Be sure that if there is joy within them, it is not for you and you are not part of it. The only part kept for you is drama, sadness, anger, criticizing, finding fault in everything you do, keep the record of your flaws, by all means, joy is not for you. So what is your choice?


 So keeping defending yourself, won't work. Believing their junk onto you will be the greatest fault you will ever do to yourself. Allowing such patterns to run all over you, is a crime against yourself as a human. .Deal with the truth that the meanness of a person only reflect who they are not who you are. The journey in the valley may seem tough. Yet, what do you want to teach me, God? Look for the hidden lesson that you did not master yet. By: ME" THe OLD ANCIENT WOMAN"