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How far have you been in the time of reflection, recalling events, memories, and incidents that shaped your moment perception of the world around you? Let's return to the moments of learning and realizing early life events when the child within hasn't felt being seen, heard, or attuned to. The inner child wonders what fault you have done? How many times was your voice suppressed and ignored? How often have you tried to please others, adult, young, or in between, to feel seen and heard or to please them due to fear, intimidation, or the cold shoulders you get, raising the sense of early life abandonment? You learned your voice doesn't matter, your emotions and feelings don't matter, and everything has to be about that other than you gradually groomed into self-abandonment, ignoring the inner piece of yourself and who you once felt are you, no one else. You started pretending, saying yes when you should say no, accepting the dysfunction, and allowing your boundaries to be pushed away.
The development of disorganized boundaries, non-rigid boundaries, and seeking survival increase the psychological burden of promoting diseases as you walk through life seeking survival, pleasing others, suppressing how you feel, how you want things to be, and denying your wishes and dreams, shadowing the absence other, and gradually you become absent too. Many people haven't grown up in a family aware of healthy relationships, healthy boundaries, respect for the other, and self-respect. They grew up repeating the same unhealthy patterns of abandoning themselves for the sake of pleasing others and survival mode. Many women fall prey to this pattern of disoriented cultural, socioeconomic, and ethical structures as the social norm activating their gene predisposition to disease and having a high prevalence in many chronic illnesses as if women and girls are predisposed to self-abandonment when society denies their voice, emotions, feelings, wished and dreams. Some say it is not only the interpersonal toxic load. There are many other factors associated with the prevalence of the disease. I responded YES, foods, air pollution, medications, lead, mercury, fluoride, contraception bills, injuries, low-grade inflammation, sleep, age, gender, zip code, socioeconomic status, lifestyle, substance use, tobacco, smoking, alcohol, and many other factors in interactions with the environment and changes in cell function, and never underestimate self-abandonment, trauma, stress, and ignoring the self either due to fear, intimidation, limitations, isolation, and unhealthy relations dynamics at all levels internal and external. When women and girls deny who they are and allow the world to shape them. At the same time, their emotional well-being is manipulated, abused, and misused; we are facing a social justice phenomenon that run through cultures and socioeconomic, political, and religious classes for decades.
When you realize that emotional well-being has never been part of social awareness, we go back to the human nature of controlling human beings and suppressing their emotional well-being, leading to chronic illness and more and more self-abandonment. It is never too late for girls and young women to educate themselves on emotional well-being and its effect on the cellular level. And how you should start with trusted resources and not fall again into the trap of emotional manipulation. Unfortunately, for centuries, women and girls have been the primary targets of societal agenda through emotional manipulation to be used and abused. Many lost their existence in the world, lost their respect and identity, and contributed to self-abandonment. While some chose to be the manipulators and make up for their early abandonment to suppress others even if they are the same gender, they learned the controller and the abuser game. Hence, the mixed perception made the truth complex: who is the abused, and who is the controller? It becomes vague and unclear what is what and how to differentiate. However, if it doesn't feel right? It is not right. If it doesn't feel authentic, it is not authentic. If it causes stress and discomfort, it is unsafe to be.
The toxic inherited load over centuries shaped communities, institutions, and individuals. It is deeply rooted in many cultures, socioeconomic classes, and group dynamics. The animal, reptilian, and mammalian brains require decades to unwind, rewire, and reconsider what is healthy when everything unhealthy makes humans sick. We live in an age when unhealthy behaviors and relationships are the norm, and that is unsafe, leading to more self-abandonment. It takes courage for humans to stop this unhealthy self-abandonment dynamic and rewind and rewire healthy patterns, habits, and mindsets. It takes courage to understand that human life is precious in GOD's eyes and everything good is from GOD---- Peace!!! By: ME, "The old ancient woman."
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