Wednesday, April 17, 2024

Self Identity and the sense of belonging Qualia

 

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           The state of being and the array of experiences may bring the soul into a place of discomfort, and there is a sense of unanswered questions about the place the soul occupies in life. Meanwhile, the temple once established for the soul to dwell in is challenging. With complex emotions, feelings, thoughts, and ideas to begin, do they mean something, and if they mean something, what is it about, its meaning, value, and essence? The person grew up with certain concepts, beliefs, and ways of thinking. How can they meet their needs and express the soul within the given world, which grows wider and wider the longer life is present?

    Moreover, the soul has been challenged by billions of ideologies, cultures, and acceptance methods. The question is, why is acceptance required in the first place? The person perceives words like, "This is what is acceptable; that is what is not sufficient. This is what we accept, and that is what we don't take. As if acceptance functions as a transaction, it can be measured numerically. The soul goes on a quest to figure out what is acceptable to be accepted. And it takes most of the core realities of the soul in such an undefined measure of acceptance. The race of humanity to decode the code of acceptance that has no clue yet, or is the unexpected events to come across to reveal some of the mystery about how it looks to be accepted, and if the assumption goes astray, what will happen next? The hollow circulation of the human sense of belonging is unmeasurable as it expands based on the nature of the socio-economic and cultural dynamics when every aspect of the environment is designed piece by piece, increasing the complexity of understanding. Each piece of the code presents a whole different world that may conflict with the existing one. The sense of contradictions grows a deep hallow within, including the master one. Imagine walking through the world only to collect hallows without definite answers to what precisely acceptance means? The child's mind grows void of a clear image of acceptance, allowing the loss of self to merge with the other, the crowd, and the group, as it is scary to be seen in such a conflicting state of identity and searching for a sense of belonging. The human psyche keeps trying to figure it out, mentally writing page after page about what could be the decoding of acceptance. However, the more pages are written, the more complex it gets, which can lead to adding another hallow to the existing ones. The hallow of family, friends, community, work, gathering, unity, and the list goes on without a definite description. It results in loosening the true meaning of everything expected of the person and having a sense of acceptance from the group. Losing themselves in search of actual existence and unity with the self-first. 

     How many found themselves far from being heard or understood? How many felt alienated and treated as the ugly duck? How many went to be invisible to fit in? How many couldn't feel life at all and went to live a different one's life, taking everything from them at face value and silencing their sense of self? How many felt void regardless of the great crowd around them, feeling distance further and further without a word? How many find it too late to return to the person they once thought they would be one day? At times of human crisis, the most significant regret is not accepting themselves first and shaping a close relationship with their authentic self without asking it from the world that crushed their soul. Self-acceptance will teach you how treat yourself kindly, be gentle, and honor the temple that the soul dwells in. The journey of reconciliation with the self is demanding. It requires the attitude to look within before turning your head 360, looking for something outside of you to make you feel alive, belong, and accepted. It is a journey of weathering the storms and being ready to discover your true self; once you get to know each other, the wider hallow will make sense. Peace!!! By: ME," The old ancient woman." 

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