Hello stranger.
How often do you sense the destination within? How frequently are you challenged to face the self? How frequently have you experienced contradictory thoughts, feelings, and actions that either do not align with the self, or you are surprised you could ever think, feel, and act in such a manner and complexity? How often have you tried to escape from confronting the self and sought to hide behind a set of pretend, fake, and go-with-the-flow energies to do whatever others do without rethinking how this can relate to the true you, what will be the consequences, and how will it impact tomorrow's decision making? Here is the person who looks got it all together, who is going in circles. Here is one who is controller, explosive, jealous, destructive, envious, and hating on whoever demonstrates something they wish to have or prevents others from having it. That's the destructive trauma in action. Trauma is a lineage from one generation to the other, and how it will manifest is what societies play an integral role in promoting trauma for the sake of control and survival of the fittest or the biological rule. From the moment using food, shelter, sex, and manipulation to move around in the world to the philosophical principles of creating a better world to elevate from the human-animal brain to the human-human brain and finding the balance between both manifestations of the theoretical and practical instinct that control human dynamic the theory of jealousy, and love complex emotions that control my group's dynamics to serve a goal in the survival of the fittest approach based on the level of the gain. Complex emotion paradigms are increasing in societies that attain more power than they can imagine. Complex emotional schemas work gradually and spread within communities till they shift the focus from the self onto the others as opponents must be taken down; the psychological and mental schemas change the perception of realities and redirect the thinking and feelings, followed by actions that confirm these schemas.
Complex emotional schemas are the most challenging phenomenon to understand from the biopsychosocial model. The cognitive coherence among social norms, beliefs, behaviors, and actions is complex within the schema of the perceived self in contrast to the perceived world around the person. The foundation of inherited trauma facilitates the environmental and behavioral triggers to promote the interactions between what we know, how we know it, its validity, and reliability when it is compared by in-group and out-group rules blueprint, and what is accepted from biopsychosocial when it is controlled by socioeconomic status (SES), low income, unsafe environment, learned helplessness, and emotional conflicts between the wants and needs on micro, and macro level. Through the turmoil of events or adverse life events, people shape their perception of their life and the world around them, whether controlled by the whole world against them or the entire world is made for them to explore and learn how to navigate. However, I hope it is as simple as that since where the person is born influences their relationships and whether it is healthy or unhealthy to build what is called resiliency, grit or survival mode, maladaptation, and learning through initiation of the behavior of the strongest within the group, and here lies the most impactful or may be dangerous point of influence when the strongest person in the group promoting malfunctioning, abuse, destructive, risky behaviors that harm others, and increase the destructive attitudes from one generation to the other. Unfortunately, destructive behaviors change the neuroelctochmeincal networks and functions across the lifespan. Unhealthy relationships, behaviors, and actions become the norm, and even crime becomes a game of joy and survival.
When the person normalizes unhealthy behavior like gaslighting, bullying, anger as a source of social justice, harm physically and emotionally, and abusing position or social status, to name a few, for the person, it is the norm. They have not been exposed to or learned different behaviors; hence, to be strong, you have to abuse others and your power; thus, you attain satisfaction or existence despite the voices that understand that this is destructive trauma talks. Unfortunately, it is depleting and exhausting when the group interacts from a destructive trauma lens. It is a power struggle, gaining control over everything around, abusing power to maintain the sense of control, and getting it all in place.
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As long as it took generation to generation to bring the same outcomes to the new generation acting from the same point of destructive trauma to whatever triggers the emotional pain within, the case is lost. While defenders become accusers, and offenders become the leading players in the arena of life, driving the closed groups' inner force toward chaos and disruption and shifting the direction to all maladaptive psychosocial, emotional, political, and environmental functioning forgetting about the respect of human subject, caring for individuals welfare, equality, justice, and the freedom of voice, and choice, conflicting what is being said and what is already done? My apology, stranger; you are in an era when disruption is the norm, chaos is the way out, and neglecting human rights is part of the complex emotional schemas in a challenging world, exaggerating conflict and laughing at peace. Whenever you find something in this article that resonates with you and your journey in life, take a moment to reconnect with the self and ask, is there a different way to live and let live? Is there something I have to work on? Why am I so defensive toward others? Why I collaborate in bringing chaos into others lives? What kind of person this made me, and what type of person I used to be? Reflect on self-perception in the right of generational trauma, the connection between the perceived beliefs and the genuine connection with the self, relationships that enabled the destructive trauma to be the social norms, and how to take a stand if this brings more conflicts and diminishes the inner peace. Understanding that each group around serves only the inner-group interests, protecting them, and acting from a survival point of view to remain in control, existence, and power within. Understand that destructive trauma not only deforms the perception of life around you but also the interaction and perception of the other and the world around you. I wish you well and hope you will stop for a second and change one thing at a time to reconnect with the SELF to restore the self. Peace!!! By: Me, "The old ancient woman."
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