Thursday, August 15, 2024

Trauma and the Human Condition.... How can we find our way out with respect and dignity?

 

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      Have you questioned why specific individuals are chosen to be in the vicious cycle of Trauma and hardships? Have you asked yourself how most chosen are females, women, single, young, or middle-aged? Have you ever noticed that either of these chosen ones was able to break the chain of Trauma and hardships? Most whites attained some level of education or advanced stages of education. However, how they seek to break the chain of Trauma, hardships, and suffering does not align with the world around them, which can stir anger and fightback attitudes. Their initiative to take responsibility for their lives is not accepted as the checklist of the world around them couldn't accept the free will of their choices and decision-making. The question is, why do females have to be gaslighted, traumatized, and hated? Why do they have to be opposed to seeking all life with respect and dignity? Why must they be on the verge of harm whenever they try to stand up for themselves? 
    
    The Western Culture is founded on independence, on the individual ability to prove their responsibility, make decisions on their own, and plan for a life that is based on achievement and accomplishment. Literature across cultures defines explicitly the requirements of the individual in Western culture. However, realities reflect a whole new story of the mix-up of Western cultures. Non-western brought a new paradigm when independence is designed for specific social classes, not the chosen ones, for being the main topic of hardships, drama, Trauma, and escalation of suffering due to either sociocultural, religious, political, race, ethnicity, or color. It was perceived that in Western culture, once the individual proves independence, they are given opportunities and chances to grow and exist. However, the literature must reflect on the subcultures and inner groups' conflicts of interest, presenting the blindspots for the outer groups to be caught. It is like the fishing net; the water reflects nothing but one piece of topography and geography; however, the outcomes vary from one person to another.
       Moreover, the goal of the naive individual taking the book by heart is entirely different from the experts in the inner net and bolts within the culture. What is seen, written, or spoken is altogether different from actions, especially when it comes to female women, specifically those who have a trauma history, their gateway to be used and abused when the opportunity presents itself, serving far beyond different goals from what is familiar. You have heard that oversharing can be a critical player in abusing someone and causing harm to their life when we speak about our plans, hopes, and dreams. Never know that some are looking for their opportunity to destroy all your hopes, dreams, plans, and even life, bringing you back to the vicious cycle of drama, Trauma, and no trace. It is all your fault and how dumb you are about life. Therefore, thank you for allowing the wrong players to orchestrate the harm with no trace or evidence; it is all in your head. You are not mentally correct, and you need to check yourself. Trauma is the lead of a scenario of deciding who is in and who is out and the human nature of having control over anything you can imagine. Your struggle, stuckness, and suffering are your fault as who do you think you are to have hopes, dreams, and plans to make life and work toward that, the humiliation of each step you take, each effort you make, each step toward your dream is being seen small, not good enough, and unachievable, you are daydreaming. You deserve the suffering and going into this vicious loop of Trauma with no way out. Each time you try, you will be punished for returning to square one. You thought taking step one would be supported and valued, not knowing that other players are excellent at causing harm with no trace, particularly since you have all the characteristics to be used. It will generally be seen and perceived as your lousy character, behavior, manipulation, and abuse of others. It will be the perfect framework to be isolated and more frustrated, as no matter what you try, square one is designed specifically for you. That is the modern hypothesis of the weak white race or the tyrannical white female who manipulates others with behaviors that look like lousy decision-making and challenge the whole. Many left the world without telling their side of the story, and many lost faith that there is something like independence and having the opportunity to change their dreams as they were denied their dreams a long time ago with societal silence and support for the whole. 
     Unfortunately, suppose you think your journey will be respected and honored, live, and let live. In that case, you are naive enough to be the chosen one in being within the game of vicious cycle of Trauma, drama, abuse, gaslighting, and suffering as it brings joy to whoever found the perfect match for their narcissistic abuse, fear of loss of control, restricting the life of the chosen one's majority white females. Independence is mentioned in the books. However, it has different real-life shapes based on social norms, culture, beliefs, religious rules, politics, race, ethnicity, color, or language. It is beyond the land. The land is the perfect gift given by God. However, the human psyche is scary and brings suffering into the lives of others. If we truly live in a Godly world, harm won't exist. If we truly follow the foundation of GOD's hopes for us, there will be live and let live. However, we live in a world of compact agendas, schemas, and hardships by design. 
    However, Trauma prints a whole new DNA within the body; it is the path to disease, illness, and breaking down human lives, which becomes the joy of the bad players to use without a weapon as the traumatized person based on their ability to persevere differ, the hypothesis provides the concept that the white gender is weak and easy to be broken down. Moreover, those who were not immune to understanding the end goal of the wrong player to break the woman down and go after the other one, the series of social injustice when there is no cure for hate, competition, jealousy, and the strive to control others that way they satisfy the harmful player harm without a trace as GOD is not in the picture from the beginning. However, can a different story be written differently from the classic scenario of no hope, independence, dreams, and goals being punished? Seek GOD's guidance and provision, and Iam sorry that you were born as a white female with a different view of the world and different aspirations that conflict with the interest of the whole... We may seek GOD's guidance and still seek the answer, for HE is good. Peace!!!! By: ME," the old ancient woman." 

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