Women........ Man Up

I don't know as many times ideas come my way through everyday experiences and challenges. How many of us don't like maneuvering and mary goes round daily tactics in order to manipulate a situation or somebody? I totally understand this will sound really odd. Yet, in a tough world we live, to do your day, walk through your personal battles and trying to get the best of your presence within the day. For many life is a counted breath, so they know so well that every day is a precious gift from God so no need for any type of mary goes round tactics. As they deeply understand what they see in front of them so when they do something, they are fully aware why they are doing it, be yourself no matter what.


In a world that is filled with unhealthy patterns of thinking and belief where self-perception and emotions are the main control of the day. Layers of accumulated misperceptions, decision making and a reputation built up. In a moment when you realize that being you is more than what the world is trying to chain you with. In a world that is controlled by women emotional packages, blockages, if you don't go with the flow, so only the mercy of God will walk you through. Everything you do, say, or breath or even taking a breath in or out will be judged.

So, our day turns to be focused on how to beat out this of the flow. Testing the waters, going through lots of experiments and experiences, there come to the patterns and what follows is hard judgment, it won't end. So, you become the one who will do the CPR for herself. I hope you got what I mean. The black duck, the outsider or please go away shout behind your back. So, let's see what is going on here?

When we face two forces into our day and we become so driven by them, here conflict won't end. When the battle between the External locus of control where everything is out of my control and things happen to me and will keep happening to me, blaming, finger-pointing, shaming, being guilty, excuses, accusing, judging, gossiping, hating, angry , functioning in the world as  a victim and trying to take control or going through the mental game through the inferiority complex . So, to gain the battle you have to have a protagonist in the schema to be the focal point of the personal agenda. Somebody has to wear the robe of unwanted and keeping collecting or building the pieces of evidence that will support the schema and this is so clear in many work environments. Who will be thrown away and who will take place. On a minor level of any political upheaval when groups takedown systems, governments, leaderships, and people since they don't align with the hidden agendas. or like a coup, using influence, power, and authority to bring a certain agendas to reality. So we notice in this maneuvering tactics who doesn't fit, has to be outed. Using all mind games and looping in words, actions, and attitudes to kick the person out.

On the other side, we are faced with an internal locus of control, where you tell yourself Iam in control, it all comes back to me, Iam my choices, decisions, and Iam responsible for any detours, crisis happen in my life. Iam not influenced by the world package trying to push on me. Here lies more emotional stability, and the wise mind can do its job of thinking and respond when challenges come to a point don't make sense. How many of us are allowing their internal locus of control reign?

It's hard to go through life controlled by our emotions, it is draining, unhealthy and toxic in the long run. When it comes to working, it is all about what is the vision, goals, values, and aspiration. What do you want? Looking at each one as an individual value, and addition, a contribution, an expert in a specific area and be trusted in this area, no emotions there as it is business you are an added value to the complete picture as there are dizzellion competitors out there, so it is all about what makes you stand out as a community builder and contributor?

Here comes the importance of the work culture and what makes people love where they are. Treating each individual as a specialist, each is really good at something so invest in this spot of specialty.  No place for personal judgment or personal perceptions that lead us to a vicious cycle of devaluing one another. Here comes the role of work culture in building up their individuals as they do believe and trust in the value they add, yet when it comes again to reactions and emotional lead souls, balance in the place has no place. Instead of being at peace about what is in my hand, here emotions take over to stir endless tactics to get rid of the protagonist and flip the coin. Being subjective not objective brings no good especially with those choose to be who they are and be true to themselves.

When we are realistic about what we want, we may become honest with ourselves first then others, so women... Man up and don't be part of demolishing another woman, be part of lifting them up.  Emotions are getting us nowhere but losing one another for vain gains .... emotions trap us in our limitations ...Man up By: ME" The Old Ancient Woman"