Social Safety and how it is linked directly to life stress, health and disease?

 

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32141764/#&gid=article-figures&pid=figure-2-uid-1

Hello there, 

   Can you imagine only one more day in 2024? A year that loaded the world with heavy lessons, making the need for deeper reflection a must. This time I want to reflect on the layers the human mind is impacted with and bidirectionally, human- systems taking us in different directions. In human ecology, you are not separated from these systems that shape your perspectives, beliefs, attitudes, behaviors, relationships, wins, gains, losses, health, and disease. It all starts with the day you have a name, age, gender, sex, family, and community. Let's ask some questions: Have you ever had the choice to select where you were born, your biological parents, the neighborhood, or the people who will enter your life at an early age? I bit, the answer is simply "No" none of us did either. Therefore, the early foundation of social safety or lack of social safety was provided to us. The formula that forms the early foundation of stress response, increased sense of fear, or being nurtured, supported, and made you full of life. Yet, as you grow this formula gets complex through complex inputs shaking the foundation whether safe or unsafe. The complexity is embedded within the systems humans interact, communicate, relate, and behave.

      For example, once you become ten years of age, sixteen, nineteen, twenty-five, thirty, and thirty-five, your environment has the most critical changes in your brain, behavior, and perceptions of others. The complex hierarchy of personality traits, and types, and how much racial injustices have been experienced promote the tendency of antisocial, narcissistic, victimhood, disturbed, or well-balanced with whatever has been experienced. Experiencing poverty, domestic violence, and dysfunctional relationships enables antisocial behavior when chemistry and brain structures are predisposed. Caring for the well-being was not a Western culture language that witnessed wars for centuries. From all over the world, humans seek the West to continue the fight. Human existence is not established on peace, you have to fight, from individual to state, and country level increasing the probability of millions predisposed to have antisocial behaviors promoted by violence against one another even in the form of cutting off the line a cup of coffee as the hustle of the day allowed for this behavior to emerge. Even romantic relationships become a source of feeding antisocial behavior by disturbing those who reject such behaviors disturbing their lives. At an early age, projection, and rejection are based on disorganized attachment patterns of relationships that disturb the body-mind-spirit homeostasis. Relationships at an early age become a survival tool begging to be fit or belong to someone even if it is not healthy, even the grown-never thought of emotional well-being as a sort of self-respect. 

   

     Even grown-ups have pleasure in watching someone struggle to fight for their lives. The sense of social safety has been torn apart a long time ago. Females become the vulnerable ticket for any antisocial behavior. Millions of lives have been disrupted due to the complex human systems of survival. Millions of females were forced to follow the dysfunction or when they decided to step out of the dysfunction antisocial war continues to break the person down, with all tools or means even practicing spill work, plotted crises, stirring tens of conflicts around them only because the ego control, the obsession of control drives the antisocial behavior seeking fleshly desires only for the sake of control. In modern times, females have no social safety within their communities, or whoever is around them seeking control, mere control over their lives. When it is asked, do you feel safe? The answer comes right away"No". I miss walking across the street without fear, I miss communicating with others without my conversation being safe, I miss walking within the community to be, and have a normal day. I miss speaking out without being judged, and million labels added to me. I miss the ability to dream and imagine the life that will give GOD all the glory without being tormented mentally, and psychologically, and harm is being done. 2024 brought the lack of social safety for a female like me who dreamed one day of a world that respects humans for who they are. I am shocked by the continuation of the natural selection rule and survival of the fittest still in action. No differentiation between gender, age, sex, or beliefs. I noticed the most successful persons understand the dysfunctional systems, yet choose to watch from far away and mind their own business, while those who are selected to be the game of the antisocial behavior have to keep standing up for themselves despite all the hurt done, it is their own responsibility, and no one else. If you think the world will defend the injustice, you will wait for your entire life, till more hundred years to come. It is the time when you can see how antisocial impacting many vulnerable around, and all you do is understand how to maintain a sense of safety when lack of social safety becomes a norm for millions of cases around. 

  

    Misunderstanding of freedom and misuse of freedom doesn't have to be your responsibility. When the environment embeds antisocial behavior as the norm, it is not your responsibility to take it upon yourself. Lacking a sense of well-being, and respect around is not your responsibility. It is a complex outcome of the generational racial structured system when not accepting the social norm of social dysfunction has to be addressed, and taught to each female on earth. When you have the right to say "No" to anything or anyone that does not align with your life, and principles of life, and let live, here the truth is revealed that respect for your wish is not in place, this is a red flag you have to be aware of. When a female has a voice, that will be a sign of civilized community and respect for human life, live and let live. It is a sign of emotional maturity that every person has the respect they owe to themselves, and that should be the norm. Maintaining the dysfunctional dynamics of not respecting a female voice, and choice is a red flag to be aware of. When we live in the West, does not mean we will forget how to elvate our life, mind, and contributions with good deeds into the world we live in. The underlying causation and correlation of disease are socioeconomic, cultural, and environmental, you are not your genes, and you are not what the world says who you are, or what you should do in life, when control becomes the goal, this is a red flag of dysfunctional dynamics, and lack of social safety. We live in tough times when trust is not in place, and fear becomes an integral part of human behaviors, decisions, and choices leading to disease manifestation and weakening the human existence for the benefit of antisocial behaviors, and egoism for the love of control. 

     The absence of well-being concepts, what does it mean? How it could be established, and how to embed it into everyday life, is not a Western principle which affected for generations millions of lives. Can the times change this gap? Can humans realize their value, and give themselves the respect they deserve? Can we stand for the good life with dignity and respect? Can we empower the vulnerable, the weak, and the young how to evolve and use their life to serve the world by doing good things, changing the world, starting with yourself first, being the change you want to see in the world, knowing that structured racism allowed for the forty, or their millions of antisocial brains to exist around us, and we have to struggle to balance their heavy attitudes toward humans, seek enlightenment, learning, and hoping for change to take place. Give yourself a chance to evaluate the level of social safety around you? How does it impact your life? What steps you would like to take to evaluate, and be a detector of the social imbalances and their impact on health and well-being, everyone's challenges are different based on their life story. Therefore, everyone has their own red flags, warnings, patterns, and outcomes that affect them so deeply that they lose the sense of social safety, and their peace is disrupted differently. Take your time, GOD is with you. He is never against you, be aware of Cain's seeds, and understand that when hurt people, hurt people. Remember, healed people, heal people. Peace!!! By: ME, "The old ancient woman."