Social Safety and how it is linked directly to life stress, health and disease?

 

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   Can you imagine only one more day in 2024? A year that loaded the world with heavy lessons, making the need for deeper reflection a must. This time I want to reflect on the layers the human mind is impacted with and bidirectionally, human- systems taking us in different directions. In human ecology, you are not separated from these systems that shape your perspectives, beliefs, attitudes, behaviors, relationships, wins, gains, losses, health, and disease. It all starts with the day you have a name, age, gender, sex, family, and community. Let's ask some questions: Have you ever had the choice to select where you were born, your biological parents, the neighborhood, or the people who will enter your life at an early age? I bit, the answer is simply "No" none of us did either. Therefore, the early foundation of social safety or lack of social safety was provided to us. The formula that forms the early foundation of stress response, increased sense of fear, or being nurtured, supported, and made you full of life. Yet, as you grow this formula gets complex through complex inputs shaking the foundation whether safe or unsafe. The complexity is embedded within the systems humans interact, communicate, relate, and behave.

      For example, once you become ten years of age, sixteen, nineteen, twenty-five, thirty, and thirty-five, your environment has the most critical changes in your brain, behavior, and perceptions of others. The complex hierarchy of personality traits, and types, and how much racial injustices have been experienced promote the tendency of antisocial, narcissistic, victimhood, disturbed, or well-balanced with whatever has been experienced. Experiencing poverty, domestic violence, and dysfunctional relationships enables antisocial behavior when chemistry and brain structures are predisposed. Caring for the well-being was not a Western culture language that witnessed wars for centuries. From all over the world, humans seek the West to continue the fight. Human existence is not established on peace, you have to fight, from individual to state, and country level increasing the probability of millions predisposed to have antisocial behaviors promoted by violence against one another even in the form of cutting off the line a cup of coffee as the hustle of the day allowed for this behavior to emerge. Even romantic relationships become a source of feeding antisocial behavior by disturbing those who reject such behaviors disturbing their lives. At an early age, projection, and rejection are based on disorganized attachment patterns of relationships that disturb the body-mind-spirit homeostasis. Relationships at an early age become a survival tool begging to be fit or belong to someone even if it is not healthy, even the grown-never thought of emotional well-being as a sort of self-respect. 

   

     Even grown-ups have pleasure in watching someone struggle to fight for their lives. The sense of social safety has been torn apart a long time ago. Females become the vulnerable ticket for any antisocial behavior. Millions of lives have been disrupted due to the complex human systems of survival. Millions of females were forced to follow the dysfunction or when they decided to step out of the dysfunction antisocial war continues to break the person down, with all tools or means even practicing spill work, plotted crises, stirring tens of conflicts around them only because the ego control, the obsession of control drives the antisocial behavior seeking fleshly desires only for the sake of control. In modern times, females have no social safety within their communities, or whoever is around them seeking control, mere control over their lives. When it is asked, do you feel safe? The answer comes right away"No". I miss walking across the street without fear, I miss communicating with others without my conversation being safe, I miss walking within the community to be, and have a normal day. I miss speaking out without being judged, and million labels added to me. I miss the ability to dream and imagine the life that will give GOD all the glory without being tormented mentally, and psychologically, and harm is being done. 2024 brought the lack of social safety for a female like me who dreamed one day of a world that respects humans for who they are. I am shocked by the continuation of the natural selection rule and survival of the fittest still in action. No differentiation between gender, age, sex, or beliefs. I noticed the most successful persons understand the dysfunctional systems, yet choose to watch from far away and mind their own business, while those who are selected to be the game of the antisocial behavior have to keep standing up for themselves despite all the hurt done, it is their own responsibility, and no one else. If you think the world will defend the injustice, you will wait for your entire life, till more hundred years to come. It is the time when you can see how antisocial impacting many vulnerable around, and all you do is understand how to maintain a sense of safety when lack of social safety becomes a norm for millions of cases around. 

  

    Misunderstanding of freedom and misuse of freedom doesn't have to be your responsibility. When the environment embeds antisocial behavior as the norm, it is not your responsibility to take it upon yourself. Lacking a sense of well-being, and respect around is not your responsibility. It is a complex outcome of the generational racial structured system when not accepting the social norm of social dysfunction has to be addressed, and taught to each female on earth. When you have the right to say "No" to anything or anyone that does not align with your life, and principles of life, and let live, here the truth is revealed that respect for your wish is not in place, this is a red flag you have to be aware of. When a female has a voice, that will be a sign of civilized community and respect for human life, live and let live. It is a sign of emotional maturity that every person has the respect they owe to themselves, and that should be the norm. Maintaining the dysfunctional dynamics of not respecting a female voice, and choice is a red flag to be aware of. When we live in the West, does not mean we will forget how to elvate our life, mind, and contributions with good deeds into the world we live in. The underlying causation and correlation of disease are socioeconomic, cultural, and environmental, you are not your genes, and you are not what the world says who you are, or what you should do in life, when control becomes the goal, this is a red flag of dysfunctional dynamics, and lack of social safety. We live in tough times when trust is not in place, and fear becomes an integral part of human behaviors, decisions, and choices leading to disease manifestation and weakening the human existence for the benefit of antisocial behaviors, and egoism for the love of control. 

     The absence of well-being concepts, what does it mean? How it could be established, and how to embed it into everyday life, is not a Western principle which affected for generations millions of lives. Can the times change this gap? Can humans realize their value, and give themselves the respect they deserve? Can we stand for the good life with dignity and respect? Can we empower the vulnerable, the weak, and the young how to evolve and use their life to serve the world by doing good things, changing the world, starting with yourself first, being the change you want to see in the world, knowing that structured racism allowed for the forty, or their millions of antisocial brains to exist around us, and we have to struggle to balance their heavy attitudes toward humans, seek enlightenment, learning, and hoping for change to take place. Give yourself a chance to evaluate the level of social safety around you? How does it impact your life? What steps you would like to take to evaluate, and be a detector of the social imbalances and their impact on health and well-being, everyone's challenges are different based on their life story. Therefore, everyone has their own red flags, warnings, patterns, and outcomes that affect them so deeply that they lose the sense of social safety, and their peace is disrupted differently. Take your time, GOD is with you. He is never against you, be aware of Cain's seeds, and understand that when hurt people, hurt people. Remember, healed people, heal people. Peace!!! By: ME, "The old ancient woman." 

Why many lessons hard to be learned?- How humans reconcile to the presence of the free blessings all around?

 

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        Have you ever noticed that days go by so fast, even many are caught in the inability to acknowledge the free blessings everywhere humans listen to the voice of the heavenly father from above, from the rising sun to the dawn of the newborn day? However, the narrative of Able and Cain took humans into the unresolved narrative of jealousy, competition, dissatisfaction, and hate for anything they can not have or get not considering what they already have. Year after year the lesson is repeated and human behavior mostly represents the same patterns of too much negativity, and drama, letting the ill-fruit of the spirit spread through the day. Strangely, jealousy is a creeping sickness even from those you don't know or hardly know you, however, jealousy spreads through even close relationships that becomes an excuse to push misbehaviors into someone's life. It is easy to spot when someone's accomplishment doesn't matter to them, when hard work is belittled when questioning goals and doing whatever it takes to hold you captive, outdoing you, everything about them, and you are their last priority. When your vision is pushed down, and every opportunity heading your way has been taken away from you. That is the Cain seeds in generation after generation presenting itself in many shapes and behaviors. Even the plain bread you eat becomes the source of jealousy in those who adopt Cain's jealousy and dissatisfaction with what they have and seek whatever the other has. 

     When we ask why some of their dreams are accomplished while others' dreams have been stolen, taken away from them, and found insurmountable hardships, one of the significant answers that those who attained their dreams were and are surrounded by the right group of people who lift them up, support, and applaud their accomplishment, while those whose dreams were, and are taken from them were and are surrounded by the wrong group of people who are in competition with the dreamer, who seek their own interests, and have joy in harming the other. Do not question when you notice your success upsets some, and they looking for any opportunity to upset, and belittle you, break your confidence, and install self-doubt, weaknesses, and question your goals instead. They don't rise up to your standard, yet want to drag you down to an unGodly route only to see you fail. The right group of people will celebrate your success, and wish you well in everything you do, knowing that you work hard, and you deserve something good. The wrong group with seek every opportunity to hinder your success, and put blockages in your way for you to be challenged through the years. Some smile on your face, yet working behind the scenes to get any opportunity out of your journey through expressing negative views on your attitude, behavior, and identity. They love to isolate you and keep being around you to make sure that you are under control. Your idea becomes theirs, your goals become theirs, your traits become theirs and here your way of life becomes theirs yet you are not worthy. You will become like the golden egg for them to take away anything they can and leave you doubting yourself, isolated, and undermining any compliment that comes from others. You may not be related to or know each other closely, yet they are interested in everything you do, stalk you on social media, know your weaknesses to use them against you, and know your problems to increase them, they love to keep you struggling, and your energy is depleted. It is hard to be in an environment to be seen as a rival, it is not a Godly life, it is all Cain seeds in a world striving for competition and dissatisfaction. 

       

       Unfortunately, millions are vulnerable to such harmful environments when their life has completely shattered, and fallen into the trap of Cain's tribes of jealousy, competition, and dissatisfaction by seeking whatever they could manipulate to feel their strive for more through the exploitation of millions of vulnerable humans who want to have life and do something good with their life. Teaching about Cain's seeds is critical for our current times as the lesson hasn't been learned, and many fall into this trap, suffering for being good, and wanting to do good in their lives. They suffer the trap of wolves in sheep's clothing. it is hard to witness that Cain's seeds are more common, and spreading the pain into the world without mercy or being aware of the free blessing has been given freely from above. Teaching about wolves in sheep's clothing is critical for everyone who is not aware of their schemas, and the well-designed scenarios to get what they want. They understand that those who ever have a good spirit are too weak to fight or stand their ground, therefore, they are easy targets for every wolf in sheep's clothing, serving only their interests, don't care for others only when it will serve a goal in their agenda, their steps are calculated and they are far smart than you could ever think, charismatic, charming in their look, mimic humbleness when needed, and strike by surprise. We are living in times when many pretend to be humans, yet they are not humans they strive on Cain's seeds. Try to make self-check how your day goes when you are surrounded by certain group of people, are you left drained, fatigue, tired, confused, lack clarity, and down on yourself? These are all red flags require your attention that you want to acknowledge ask ask what could drive these attitudes all around, are they maladaptive intergenerational trauma where everyone around came from unstable, unhealthy interpersonal relationships affect how they relate or communicate to others? stress what causes the stress? lack of sleep, majority of the modern world suffer from sleep deprivation due to the work-life style. However, all these red flags if left unaddressed will affect health span overtime and leading humans to the vicious cycle of social diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease including depression, anxiety, and paranoia  Peace!!! By: ME, "the old ancient woman." 

Despite all the contradictory and how it seems---- ---- --- Have faith & take courage

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     The new year is almost there. Even if it is 365 days, many go through it without considering there are limited windows for change. Many dwell in the past without learning from it or allowing it to be where it belongs. As it is said, "the past is the past," which means it has already happened, and nothing can be done about it, or the clock or the time can be reversed to bring different outcomes other than what has already happened. Living in the past will freeze life, and maybe those who want to hold each other in place make the past their game for holding each other back by swelling in the past or what happened there, and it becomes a broken record that does not make any sense anymore while the nature of life is change. Nothing remains the same; thoughts, emotions, feelings, and actions bring a sense of contradiction to the light. Whoever wants to keep you captive to the past will keep repeating the same actions and words that remind you of the stage you were in the past to keep you captive, frozen when all the past flashes back and has power over you to repeat the same behaviors that hold you back from change and this is the codependency dynamics, narcissistic dynamic, and antagonist, agonistic paradigm when the past is the context in which someone will be held captive. 

     Unfortunately, the manipulator won't see the game taking place as it brings the desired outcomes to keep the other captive, prisoner to the past self where they haven't been validated or accepted in some way or form. They perceive everything as their fault, and they deserve where they are. Manipulators feed on this game of shame, guilt, and fear, belittling and ripping the confidence out of the victim or the naive self by allowing all types of psychological wounding to keep emerging, influencing the social-emotional state. As long as the naive self is unaware that what is happening is wrong and nothing of their fault, the game of manipulation leads to the breaking down of the person who depends on validation, acceptance, belonging, and getting fit in whatever dynamic brought into their life. It is a slow wipeout of human value, dignity, and integrity. Many artistic powers utilize manipulation techniques to maintain their status, power, and authority and gain out of the game. It will always be the weak side of the co-dependent personality at fault, and what happens to them is what they deserve, bringing this state of questioning their self-worth and why they have to go through all that they went through? 

     Unfortunately, the game of power and control is a choice. A celebrity has been selected to have dominance over anyone or anything that will feed the sense of control and grandiosity. It doesn't put a window of age, it is early childhood decision by imitating an adult model who control, and get what they want the way they want, even if they follow dark rituals to have influence on the other. It is a contract between the controller and the dark energies to maintain control and gain power over the other who feeds their energy. It heavily affects individuals, societies, and even nations, working with master teachers for dark rituals, taking even from the holy book,"The Jezebel Spirit." master teachers cause chaos and damage to whatever energies feed the hunger for power and authority over the other. Unfortunately, through ages, these teachers mastered their work by negatively impacting the lives of others. The question is,"if God exist, why HE allowed such demonic works to keep on going and harming human life, and their existence, and function?"

     Why there is no end to it? Why is their partnership successful? Why is bringing nothing but a contradiction between truth and faith? When the co-dependent realizes that they are under the influence of Jezebel Spirit, it shakes their trust in the world and whether they are surrounded by a friend or foe? There is no trust in anything or anyone. Nothing makes sense like before; the Jezebel spirit wants to have control over materialistic entities and the body, the flesh, the sexual lust or bring down the spirit, and the dignity of human beings. It is the demonic desire to see the other in pain, struggle, suffering, and even humiliation of their existence. It is the devil's contract as it is absorbed into the body and mind of Jezebel's spirit. The main goal is to have control over the body, separate people meant to be together and cause chaos in the life of the physical, beautiful, successful, wealthy, and rich entity or even a whole race, religion, or color.  Many gain millions of dollars in this trade, and unfortunately, GOD still sees it all; however, the works are deeply rooted in the rituals being done during the new moon and full moon when the control over the body takes place, yet GOD sees it all year after year, decade after decade, and brings this sense of contradiction, if GOD is good why HE is allowing these demonic works to take place and cause harm to human lives? And do we really live in a humanistic world, or is it controlled by JEZEBEL SPIRIT?...... Peace!!! By: ME, "the old ancient woman"