The Broken Loop

For sure no one chooses to be traumatized or being in a situation where they are poorly treated. There is a side that is not clear to those who fall in such a broken loop. Mostly naivety, overprotection, authoritarian environment, lack of education, immaturity, assuming the good in everyone around, displaced, and the extreme being born in high conflict zones, regions at risk or wars. So, we as humans are placed in a situation in a way or another at a certain point in our life.

If you realize somehow that you are one of those, congratulation, you are a member of the broken loop. In the world of survival, all of the above are the variables of the equation for filtering. If you are not tuning with yourself, then you will be used to fulfill the plans of others, so your existence may be translated only in one scope," A picture is taken" your presence only is a picture that tells a different story. Ignoring all the Neuropsychol effects occurring within the environment, you are in. The truth requires us to take a deep breath and pay attention to those dynamics that are targeting you in different ways. Delivering a completely different message from what it is meant to be. Being aware of the situations and the words are being used in each, give a hint to those who are members in the broken loop to stop and pay attention. Many will walk away from a broken loop to another and facing more and more intensity in wording and patterns that day by day become so clear to the members of the broken loop.


  Here comes the choice of understanding, analyzing, keeping track of the patterns. Paying attention to the following points:
-What is the message is repeated?
- What situations do these messages occur?
- What occasions do these messages repeat themselves?
- What are the cues that come before these messages occur?
-What type of characters are delivering these messages when the patterns occur?
-What normally occurs when these messages keep persisting and occurring?
- And the main core what is your reaction/ action or response in each situation?
-If these patterns are working on your triggers, past, present, they will keep happenings as long as they achieve the desired outcome of either disempowering you, belittle you, boxing you, leave you out in the cold, drop you under the bus, blind competition, limiting your life, withness you are you fail over and over, traumatizing you without a trace, controlling, and all the office politics that reflect the unhealthy lifestyle humans count on to survive.

It is not your fault when you lack knowledge, and yet it will become your fault when you get the knowledge. Lack of understanding and not having the right knowledge at the right time, right place, right people, will definitely leave its scars on you. It is your responsibility when you get the knowledge to move on to the right place within first, with a radical acceptance that you can't change what had happened and the battles you had or have to go through. You will start to realize that the heaviness you are made to carry with you along the way, is not yours and little by little start another completely different journey of putting down such heaviness that left deep scars in your body and life.

Don't expect that the new realization will be welcomed, the message will keep reaping, the situations as the main target to keep you in the broken loop, with an emphasis, broken people have to stay broken or no survival for the fittest.  Don't expect support or finally, you are counted as a human, you will be pushed down furthermore, the wind may become stronger and then you will see the truth. Now it is all up to you... What do you choose...................  By: ME" The Old Ancient woman"