Cultural Wounds

 

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The visual world even though it is framed, designed to represent the concept of the environment around it, has been interpreted differently. Humans come from all different routes and cultures around the world. They carry both sides of their experiences, knowledge, and fame. Yes, fame, the one that represents the other side of the story on their behalf. They don't have to retell it or explain it to anybody. It already proceeds their show up in the world. The common story or knowing about a culture becomes part of the individual inheritance. They don't have to ask for it. Hence, decisions, actions, behaviors are built spontaneously on keeping retelling the same story over and over, from one generation to another. However, these inherited stories that shape the world's perception of each other culture carry the positive and negative affect. Take an example, when we hear, this culture is so generous, yet they are aggressive, impulsive, no courtesy. Hence, the generous part will fade to allow the other side of the story to determine their role within the community they show up in. Being aggressive, impulsive, no courtesy will determine what role may be available for them in any place of the world they live, work, and interact with. A conflict will arise if individuals start to prove or act differently from what they have no fault to inherit, the cultural fame. This conflict is the seed of planting more wounds in the way of feeling, thinking, behaving, and relating to other humans. It creates this surface tension that you feel like wrong things are the common rule in place. The person who has been labeled or stigmatized culturally will start showing the signs and behavior of cultural wounds. When the person starts doing passive-aggressive actions against the ones they trigger these feelings or emotions in their lives. They start to get professional in hiding these actions or admitting they are doing them. Since they are subconsciously built in the brain and the body is automatically doing the harmful action to others once these feelings or emotions are triggered. 

         These harmful actions start to influence their relationships at home and at work. At home we may label them as abuse and neglect, gaslighting, narcissism, racism, biases, domestic violence, and homicide or suicide.  The animal brain is controlling the mind and its actions to feel satisfied, or fill the cultural wound that has been left unnoticed, unaddressed, unidentified, or even turn the other side of your face and ignore it, Humans become to state when they tolerate harmful actions done around, they become numb. Everyone wants to be identified by the good deeds, of saying hello, good morning, how are you? and the common famous global lie the answer: "I'm fine". We all know it is a lie. It is not the truth. Though I don't trust you enough to let you know how I truly feel. Cultural wounds allow mistrust, distance, avoidance, and ignoring to be the top behaviors in human reactions. I did unjust to a person, the shock of my action made the person wants to ask me why you did that? what we say confrontation technique. However, I choose to avoid, ignore, stale my presence and the chance to give this person an answer since I know from the deep bottom that my cultural wounds revealed themselves in my actions against this person. And the loop goes from one activity to another without confrontation or acknowledging the harm that has been done to this person or a group of people. 

       Cultural wounds are the hardest part of any justice system since it leads to confrontations, discomfort, and shaking the underlying causes of the harmful actions. It is a multi systematic family. Its parts are complex political, religious, race, gender, age, color, economic, environmental, whatever dominator reigns in this multi systematic family needs to be addressed and that requires resource, either humans or funds and whatever included dealing with the truths, not sugarcoating things and setting on a can of worms all the time. It is a transformational movement. Since all subsystems have to put down their overprotective on their systems, stop fingerprinting, protest, causing more harmful actions, and stop, notice, validate, rethink, acknowledge, and talk the uncomfortable talk, or by means to mature and grow up and rise up to the level when my opinion, views, emotions, and feelings are respected, considered, and heard. As it is said, open a window for verbal economic. I express my mind not to accuse or shame or blame you. I express my mind so we both can acknowledge the elephant in the room then what can we do about it to make the world a better place for you and me. And the required maturity in thinking. the majority are grown up physically, yet still acting with what happened to them when they are little. Time to mature from high school culture to well-respected valued human beings' culture. By: ME." The Old Ancient Woman." 

Crossing The Great Falls

  

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                                 The rocky road may bring a person to notice, to observe, and to make a rotation of remodification of how they see things. sometimes I ask why toxic thinking exists in the first place? why heavy energies accumulate over time, and there is no awareness about its impact on creating healthy communities. If I read the logo:" Stronger Together" and I want to see it in action, it gives me a whole different dynamic, that I experience a different nature of the action. It gives me that there are undeclared rules for this logo to be a reality. first, a person has to prove a complete surrender to how things have to go. A person has to be willing to deviate from what they consider their core value and melt within the common dynamic to get things done. Outsiders are kept at bay, as they are considered prideful with their level of expertise or knowledge which may cause discomfort around the overall frame. So, they have to be doubted with each input they try to make. Giving them the impression that what they do is completely unacceptable, disorganized, meaningless, useless, and not worthy to listen to or consider. They have to be surrounded by blockers who will make sure they are kept where they want them to be, no further truth to be provided, create battles of division, smoke screen, shadow boxing. to make sure things go as supposed to be. For a person who does not understand all these heavy energies in place, a sense of fear, and intimidation will be in place, walk next to the wall, avoid being in contact with the outsider, even though they see how things are going. Yet, there are many other elements to the equation. Paying bills, having a job to provide for themselves, and their families, the economic state that the world is going through. So, do not expect to have allies on your side if you are the outsider. All your efforts will be pressed against, so you will look like a crazy person, doubting your mental capacities, and the overall policy will make sure to set up all the actions that will prove this. So, it is a losing battle, many unfortunately lose their mental capacities when they are faced with these heavy energies. especially when these energies do hold a position of power, authority, money, and have the socio-political, social-economical support that keeps the validation for all their decisions. The outsider is only a zero influence within the dynamic, and mostly they are being pushed under the rug till it makes its impact, so like a monopoly game. Millions lose their lives and existence within. 

          The tactics do eat away the spark within the outsider, leaving them chopped with no wings to fly. Secondly, another question comes to mind, Is it worthy to use all the energy given to a person in sabotaging, depleting, erasing the outsiders? And why are they called outsiders? if the goal is creating profit, successful community, well-experienced teams, why not reaching common grounds, redirecting the toxic heavy energies into more productive, healthy, and promoting energy for good actions for all. Why exclusion has to have the final saying? I find myself in an endless set of whys? which leads to nothing but another waste of time, and energy. For God's word-heavy energies won't disappear from the earth as this is the battle for humans on earth to go through. By means, humans are not living in Utopia. The evil convinced Eve to eat from the tree playing on the sting of knowing, power, authority, and the more law, the first betrayal committed and planted the fire seeds of heavy energies within the human soul, which becomes the nature element to exist of earth, survival mood, fighting for survival, argue, conflict, struggle, battle after battle and by nature the human likes it as it proves who is in control, and it is a good feeling. I conquer, I win, I gain, I reign, I am in control feels sooooooooooooooooo good, more, please. As if it is King Lear on the show over and over, who is going to win regardless of the actions, regardless of who is going to be hurt, shredded into pieces. Yet, it is not the person, it is the seeds at work, the monster does not think who they will be going to be their meal, all they are occupied by is satisfying their hunger which has no end. They are in a constant state of filling this hunger. expecting the monster will be satisfied sometimes, is a lost battle. So, choose wisely, when authority and money are more important than a human, it is a losing battle since the outsider will be eaten on the way.  

      Thirdly, If you want to create a healing community, you have to recognize the presence of the monster, and reach a resolution of acceptance, yet, move away, and pick your battles, God is seeing it all, and He is allowing the presence of the monster for a reason, and purpose. Heavy energies will not disappear, they are like a weed strengthening the soil.  So, Healing will take place only if a person becomes aware of the piece of the world around, and its function. It is a deep journey, some are being chosen to go through, understanding how this changes the DNA of humanity. If we truly want to reach a healing world, we have to allow things to serve their function, walk with God, search for His wisdom,  He sees you,He hears you. No matter the rocky roads you are walking through, they are there to serve a purpose, it is a journey of many aches, only to tell you who is really crossing the great falls with you. Do not expect to have allies, or have a crowd around you. As an outsider, you have to go through the valley of the shadows of death to give proof of who reigns over the world and the universe. He reigns. have comfort, and join His presence as He is crossing with you the great falls. He picks you up, disciplines you, changing you in His image, so, Rejoice, and walk with Him Confidently, He is smiling at you no matter what. Imaging He is already there next to you. How this will make you so proud? Rejoice. By: ME" The Old Ancient Woman"