Before traveling any road, a person would love to have a map in hand or be familiar with the road they are about to take. It gives a clear picture of what to expect, destination, time, and the situations may arise. My journey has no map, it presents itself to me, leaving me with the options take it or leave it. No previous discussion, or asking about what do I think or the journey falls into my personality, responsibilities, and skills. What it will add to my skill set? will it help me move forward or keep stuck? How much growth will be obtained in this journey? To empower somebody, they have to have the clarity, transparency, of why I have to do this or that? It builds trust, and accountability that the person in safe hands. Using the element of surprise with vulnerable people aim only at one thing, gaining control over them, and controlling how their life has to be, as we say the vicious cycle. The human mind does not want to surrender to the point of being straightforward.
A vulnerable person sometimes travel the journey with good intentions, expecting the good in everyone, every road they travel. When they kept taking by surprise, all previous wounds surface themselves up, turning the moment of belonging into a moment of exclusion, outsider, opponent, stranger danger, divide and attack, alienation, upset, frustration, and shock. The moment turn to be an emotional turmoil and here when the scenario starts to take place, the aim is to disarm the vulnerable person so they have nothing to lean on, and the action is taken. When your vulnerability is seen and known, power take place to push you more and more down, silencing your voice, and bring you back to the box. it is the impulsive roadmap of being unsafe on both sides. Acting out of power is a sign of deep inside fear.
If I couldn't control you, I will control how the world sees you, universal rule, even you don't know the other on a personal level, here comes back my concept is seeing the human as an idea, and since this idea is opposing my overall plan, or causing imbalance, or disturbance, the idea has to be broken down , or go away, or end. The question is why? brings itself again on the scene, why things happen the way they happen , and how can we break this vicious cycle of taking advantage of the vulnerable, or not considering their presence, voice and action in the journey? Why they have to be invisible, vanish or disappear? Is it gaining more power, authority, money, wealth, or prestige? why enough is not enough? Why the iron hand has to have the final saying? Using fear, threat, intimidation to oppress ,and here bad things keep happening. A mountain of suppressive emotions and unspoken words within the vulnerable till they do something wrong to confirm the world views around them. The bottom of the iceberg of building tension, fear, intimidation, accusation is not seen, what is see is the wrong doing, as if it is a step in the built-up scenario of the vulnerable person profile. Emotional tactics do exist or as we say the psychological element of building the ring of tension around the vulnerable person till they reach the moment of break down do exist, and it leaves no mark behind all what is measurable is the wrong action the vulnerable did? Manipulation in words, and messages, you notice the contradictions and yet it may be explained from the other perspective the way they would like the journey to go?
This brings me to another concept of free will? what do we mean by free will and where it stands in the world of power, authority and money, the haves and the haves not? When the mind is trying to make sense of what does not make sense? I find myself only standing at the road looking as far as I can see, the roads are made for us to travel through, they don't move, they are stable, and being maintained to keep their purpose. even it looks like a whimsical lane still once the person reach a point it looks straight. Can this view be applied to our ideas about each other. I see uncomforting situation, I see foggy roads, unclear outcomes, or what am I up to? I sense an existence of rocky intentions? I see ignoring of the voice. I see imbalance in power and discussion making. I see conflict, drama, negative bias, threat to my existence, competition, lashes under the belt. I see power struggle, I see concepts of modern slavery, the slavery of the minds, the control of balances and checks, I see implicit biases, all these mental images and battles a vulnerable person scenarios going on since their psychological safety is absent. To be who they are, true self in any environment without being judged, as safety doesn't take place at first, their trust is completely damaged. Leading us to the world of misunderstanding and confusion where the person stands, how they show up in the world, and how they are perceived by the world and others around them. Am I wrong? and If I am wrong, will you be able to explain to me? Explain to me in an honest manner ,since a vulnerable person has developed a compass to detect whether you are honest or not, here the walls will get higher and higher since allowing others into their space adds wood to the fire, it's damage more than it reclaims. So, welcome to after math trauma, which carries lots of defenses, and spikes to push away anything or anyone they don't feel safe around, even it may be not. I don't think any other creature can use this build-up strategies to diminish another creature but humans, and this reflect how far humans are ready, equipped to use the animal brain more than the human brain. it is a cycle going on and on, when the voiceless has no voice or asked to have no voice. I realized this warfare is a continuous road map for the same battlefields a human can travel through. faces may change, names, status, location, yet the main scenario has been announced among the other to be carried out. You become the target, and the target can be traced, tracked, and circled to reach their point of completed weaknesses then vanish from the earth. It is a warfare if your voice is different from the crowd or cause unrest to the crowd. And here the crowd succeeded to make you a target of negative attention which distract everyone else from what is truly going one. Like putting a piece of cheese in front of a mouse, while the game is behind their back and lack of attention and that is the worst place a person can be. We live in a world of the absence of psychological safety which leaves communities, organizations in a state of resources depletion, and the main resource is the human capacities. So, not only natural disasters, pandemics, recessions, it is also a mental war over the existence of ideas. keeping the problem persist to exist. I feel unsafe of unclear travelled roads, I feel Iam lacking my psychological safety, correct me if I am wrong while Iam searching for answers why things happen the way they do? Still searching for my voice in a globalized existence. By ME" The Old Ancient Woman,"
